Demeka Vines a psychiatric mental health nurse, minister, author, and devoted mother who has dedicated her life to inspiring and empowering others through her online prayer ministry and coaching business. From a young age, she knew God would use her and felt a deep love for Christ, receiving dreams and visions that guided her journey. Demeka’s path has been shaped by significant challenges, including the murder of her uncle, experiences of childhood trauma, household witchcraft, molestation, depression, and escaping multiple abusive relationships.
In May 2023, following the tragic death of her sister Deleisa, Demeka answered the call on her life and felt a strong urgency to establish a community rooted in hope and healing. Through her ministry, she emphasizes the power of prayer and the importance of the “secret place,” where she connects with the Father on behalf of others. Her memoir, Healing the Hurt of Yesterday, along with her recent release, Godly Affirmations, filled with messages of rooted love, reflect her personal journey and aim to guide others in experiencing the transformative love of Christ. Demeka invites all to join her in cultivating a community that offers hope, healing, and restoration.
What inspired you to become an author?
My personal journey through deep pain and healing inspired me to write. After experiencing significant trauma, I found solace and strength in my faith in Christ. Writing became a way to share how God’s grace transformed my life, hoping to encourage others facing similar struggles. I wanted to show that with faith, healing is possible, and we don’t have to be defined by our past.
What is the main message of Healing the Hurt of Yesterday?
The core message of the book is that no matter the pain or trauma we endure, healing and transformation are possible through faith in Christ. It’s about surrendering our struggles to God and trusting in His grace. The book offers a message of hope, reminding readers that their past doesn’t have to dictate their future and that they can find peace and purpose through Christ’s healing power.
How did your faith play a role in overcoming challenges?
My faith was the foundation of my healing process. At my lowest points, when I felt hopeless, I turned to prayer and sought God’s word for guidance. I realized that my strength didn’t come from my own abilities but from God’s transformative power. Trusting in His promises gave me peace and confidence that He would carry me through, no matter the challenges I faced.
What advice would you give to someone starting a business or ministry?
My advice would be to start with prayer and seek clarity on your purpose. Understand what God is calling you to do and align your vision with His will. Once you have that clarity, break the vision into manageable, actionable steps. Surround yourself with mentors and support systems, and be prepared to invest in learning. Trust the journey, remain patient, and remember that obstacles are part of the process.
How do you stay motivated in tough times?
In tough times, I draw strength from my faith. I remind myself of all that God has brought me through in the past and trust that He is with me in every situation. Prayer and scripture grounding help me stay focused on God’s promises, and I know that each setback is part of His greater plan for my life. Faith, perseverance, and keeping my eyes on my purpose are what help me stay motivated during challenging moments.
What’s the most important factor in life coaching?
The most important factor in life coaching is empowering individuals to believe in their potential and develop a resilient mindset. I help clients uncover their unique strengths and passions, and we work together to set clear, actionable goals. It’s about helping them see that, no matter the obstacles, they have the ability to move forward and achieve their dreams by maintaining faith and staying focused on their purpose.
What do you consider the key to achieving long-term success?
The key to long-term success is consistency, faith, and a clear vision. It’s essential to remain committed to your goals even when obstacles arise. Consistency in your actions and staying true to your purpose, combined with trust in God’s plan, will guide you through. Learning from setbacks and staying adaptable are crucial, but most importantly, keeping faith that God’s timing and plan will lead to lasting success.
How do you balance your different roles as an author, coach, and entrepreneur?
Balancing my roles requires strong time management and organization. Each role feeds into the other, and I prioritize tasks based on their impact and deadlines. I also rely heavily on prayer for guidance in decision-making and staying focused. Maintaining a healthy balance also involves setting boundaries to ensure I’m giving my best to each area of my life without neglecting my personal well-being.
What challenges have you faced as an entrepreneur?
As an entrepreneur, I’ve faced challenges like self-doubt, financial uncertainty, and navigating the complexities of running a business. There have been times when I questioned if I was on the right path, but I leaned on my faith and trusted that God was guiding me. Each challenge became an opportunity to grow and learn. I’ve also learned the importance of resilience, flexibility, and surrounding myself with a supportive community.
What impact do you hope to have through your speaking engagements?
Through my speaking engagements, I hope to inspire others to embrace their God-given purpose and trust that they are never alone in their struggles. I want my audience to know that healing is possible, no matter the pain or setbacks they’ve experienced. My goal is for them to leave with a renewed sense of hope, confidence in God’s plan for their lives, and the courage to take action toward their dreams.